Chemicalize Me

In the course of my singlehood, I’ve taken the time to carefully bend, mold, and craft my ideal man.  There has been a new series of stipulations and benchmarks added to my wish list based on all the delights and downs of my previous relationships.  They range from education level, professional trajectory, physical characteristics, family dynamics, and so on.  And though none of these conditions are a deal breaker, per se, I clearly know what I want.  

To much of my girlfriends’ (white) jealousy, who are married and settled, I am that single girl, living in her own apartment in the middle of the city, employed with a cool gig, and absolutely carefree.  Moreover, as far as my girlfriends in America are concerned, they remind me how lucky I am for supposedly living in one big Kosher candy store, and I am effectively the Yiddisha sweet-tooth fairy.  

So I’ve begun shuffling the deck in search of my Ace, date after date.  Since matchmaking is a national sport in Israel, my friends have been champions in setting me up with their super decent male buddies – the most recent arrangement taking place this week at Par Derriere.  This is a poetic wine bar, where the ambiance is of drunken love tucked away somewhere between a chateau in Tuscony and an alley in SOHO.

Unfortunately, Par Derriere’s drunken love wasn’t intoxicating enough.  While my date checked off so many of my demands, the only chemistry from that night was the one fermenting in my glass of wine.  But surly behind all disappointments there are lessons, and in this case, I’m considering voiding my terms and conditions, and substituting them with a chemical formula that sets this lab on fire. After all, what good is that “girl in the city” without “Sex” in the title???

8 thoughts on “Chemicalize Me

  1. My Sweetest “Yiddisha sweet-tooth fairy”, please make sure that the Ace of Hearts is not a cropped card!
    Other then that-Eat, Play and Pray. I enjoy reading your BLOG. Very well written.
    Keep shuffling your Deck and remain Healthy and Happy.

  2. a) great picture of you
    b) you will not be single forever. so, enjoy it
    c) are you planning on staying in Israel? if yes, then live carpe diem as if you were planning to go back to Cali. then you will go for the chemistry and find the one!

    • Haha!!!! I love your comment. Thanks love!! Look, dating is a drag…and we all know it. It just that the grass is always greener. But yes, I am having a lot fun now, but not entirely because of the boys!! 🙂

  3. You are much more to me than the carefree single girl… you are a force to be reckoned with! and there is a very lucky man out there waiting for you… in the meantime get a taste of all the flavors out there!

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